Ben Feder is President of International Partnerships for the U.S. at Tencent, the Chinese Internet titan and formerly CEO of Take Two interactive. He is also the publisher of the smash video game hits, Red Dead Redemption, Grand Theft Auto and NBA 2K.  With all his success, he also experienced the inevitable cost it took on his family and personal life. This led to a self-imposed sabbatical in Bali with his family and in his new memoir ‘Take Off Your Shoes: One Man’s Journey from the Boardroom to Bali and Back,’ he shares his experiences and what he learned from his journey of self-discovery.

‘Take Off Your Shoes’ begins with an introduction in which Ben Feder explains that he wrote this memoir mainly for his children. Not only did he want them to understand why he embarked on this journey, but he also wanted it to serve as a memento of the special time they shared as a family. One thing that led him to take a sabbatical was his curiosity about brain plasticity and how people can change their lives by changing their minds. It all started one evening when Ben came home late from work and his wife Victoria approached him with the idea. After weighting the pros and cons, which included sacrificing careers that they both worked hard to attain, they decided that any increased time together as a family was worth any downside.

Ben Feder did what most people caught up in the everyday rat race only wish they could do and took the time to share his experiences. His memoir reads like a journal because not only does he write about the journey, he writes about his personal development and struggles as well as his personal growth through it all. Like adults, children can also become overwhelmed with their busy lives, so it is admirable that the author and his wife chose to involve them in this life-changing experience. Seeing the poverty in other countries made them thankful for what they have and made them more conscientious citizens of the world. Along the way, Ben learns to appreciate how activities like meditation and art can help him handle stress and the family gets a different perspective on life. Not everyone can afford to pick up and travel the world with the family, but they can find ways to lead a more mindful life. All they must do is think outside the box and dare to step outside their comfort zone. Overall, ‘Take Off Your Shoes’ is easy to read with language that is easy to understand and will appeal to readers who are looking for ideas to enrichen their lives. It is insightful, personal and humorous with something for everyone.

*A copy of this book was given for an honest review. The opinions expressed here are solely the author’s.